Daring to Trust
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The best-selling author of How to Be an Adult in Relationships explains how to build trust—the essential ingredient in successful relationships—in spite of fear or past betrayals Most relationship problems are essentially trust issues, explains psychotherapist David Richo. Whether it’s fear of commitment, insecurity, jealousy, or a tendency to be controlling, the real obstacle is a fundamental lack of trust—both in ourselves and in our partner.
Daring to Trust explores the importance of trust throughout our emotional lives: how it develops in childhood and how it becomes an essential ingredient in healthy adult relationships. It offers key insights and practical exercises for exploring and addressing our trust issues in relationships. Topics include: • How we learn early in life to trust others (or not to trust them) • Why we fear trusting • Developing greater trust in ourselves as the basis for trusting others • How to know if someone is trustworthy • Naïve trust vs.
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- Random House Publishing Services
- 9780834822078
- 9781590308240
- ePub
- 0
- David Richo
- English
- 2010-12-14
- 100
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- Cover
- Title Page
- Copyright
- Contents
- Introduction
- How This Book Came to Be
- Our Need, Our Fear, Our Risk
- Practice: Exploring Our History of Trust
- 1. What Is Trust?
- Intelligent Distrust
- Our Capacity for Trusting
- Needs and How They Play Out
- Reading Ourselves
- Practice: Following Our Needs
- There Are Healthy Connections
- Bonds of Attaching and Relating
- Practices
- Breathe, Pause, Start Over
- Exploring Our Childlike and Adult Trust
- 2. Our Early Sense of Trust
- Our First Steps
- Gone but Here
- Practices
- Receiving Comfort and Facing Challenge
- Trusting and Loving
- 3. How Trust Happens in Relationships
- Reciprocal Trust
- Surrender in a Committed Relationship
- To Whom Shall We Go?
- Exploring Our Style of Trusting
- When the Five A’s Meet the Ego
- Practices for Auditing Our Relationship
- How to Know If Someone Can Be Trusted
- How Communication Becomes Trustworthy
- 4. How We Miss Trust
- Trusting Can Wake Old Ghosts
- Practice: Freeing Ourselves from the Fear of Trusting Our Own Power
- When Our Story Gets in the Way
- Practice: Erasing the Storyboard
- 5. Trust Lost, Trust Regained
- The Silent Treatment
- Lies We Tell, Hear, or Won’t Hear
- A Double Life
- Practice: Letting Go of Obsession
- When We Cheat
- When We Are Betrayed
- Why We Put Up with Pain
- Practices for Rebuilding Broken Trust
- Noticing How Our Past Is Present
- The Work of the Partner Who Broke Trust
- The Personal Work of the Partner Who Was Betrayed
- When Both Partners Want to Work on the Relationship
- 6. Trusting Ourselves
- Trusting Our Feelings
- Practice: Working with Our Emotions
- Trusting Our Bodies
- Trusting Our Sexuality
- Can I Trust Myself in a Crisis?
- Practices
- Befriending the Three Witches
- No Longer Victims
- A Positive Approach to Ourselves
- 7. Our Core Trust in Reality
- The Supreme Attunement
- Practice: Fidelity to Ourselves
- Four Reliable Directions
- Practice: Using Our Compass of Trust
- 8. Trust in Powers beyond Us
- Our Longing for Meaning
- Buddhist Paths to Adult Trust
- Trust in the Higher Self
- Practice: Awakening at Many Levels
- Epilogue: Trust in Grace-full Coincidence
- About the Author
- Also by David Richo
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